"Do you have someone who seems to ambiguously hate you at work, or at your social circle? Want them to be manipulated into liking you instead? Ask them for a favor! Try to position them into an incredibly difficult and awkward decision by requesting their kindness, like borrowing something from them and returning it on time."
— Remember that a person’s own actions steer their own disposition towards others, and the bigger the price one pays for his or her decisions, the more he or she values it. It’s self-perception theory at work!
